The idea of creating a vision for yourself personally, your relationship. your marriage, your child or your family begins with free-flowing ideas--Brainstorming. Throw out words and jot them down. There is no right or wrong, there is no "crazy" answer. Be free and put down words that come to mind.
STEP 1: Start your vision statement by writing all the positive, affirming words that describe your ideal of marriage. Use nouns, verbs, and adjectives.
STEP 2: Consolidate your words into sentences that inspire you, drive you, and cover your dreams as a couple.
STEP 3: Review your vision with your spouse and revise until both of you agree it describes the ideal picture of your marriage.
STEP 4: Put it in an obvious place. Read it daily. Memorize it.
Steps 1-4 above taken from Marriage Mission International https://marriagemissions.com/ (see clickable link under Links to the left)
Master Suite with a spa-like bathroom
massive walk-in closets
Safe place
secure
Takes initiative
Protective
fierce
trusting
gentle
tender
Do life together
edifying
encouraging
supportive
understanding
warm
loving
honest
kind
integrity
keeps promises
affectionate
manners
do best
honor parents
obedient to God
godly
helpful
serve one another
pray together